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When She Lies In Court - Prosecute Her !
My Ex Girlfriend was asked at a Bail Hearing by my Attorney if she ever received a 5,000.00 Check as a Loan or Gift from me ?
She answered NO twice in Court, while under oath to tell the truth !
She had me arrested for violating a restraining order, even though she was staying with/dating me during the restraining order.
Once I was arrested, and taken to jail, and given a 200.000.00 Bond, I tried to get out to save my business and my home.
My Ex Girlfriend shows up in Court at the Bond Reduction Hearing, claiming she was "scared of me" ?
When I tried to show that I had recently moved her into a new apartment, and loaned her Money, she lied to keep me in Jail.
Fortunately, I have the cancelled check, with her fingerprint on it !!
She wrote the 5,000.00 check out in her OWN Handwriting.
As of Oct 17th, 2009, I have not yet received the court transcripts yet.
But when I do get them, I intend to go to the Judge, States Attorney, or even the local News Media to see that Justice is done.
If you want to follow my case, it is filed in this Blog under "Chris's Story"
Stay Tuned ?
Perhaps the biggest obstacle to catching someone is the legal process itself. I believe you'd need to file an Order to Show Cause (OSC) in the case to have the opportunity to have the judge hear your proof. You may need to file other documents as well. The upside would be the restraining order could be revoked and the liar could be held in contempt of court. This could conceivably result in a hefty fine, jail time or both. The cost of hiring a lawyer to do this would likely be substantial. If you have the fortitude to go it alone, it wouldn't be impossible. Extreme caution is advised here. I would attend other hearings to get the lay of the land. Nolo.com is a fantastic site to purchase legal books, so you don't goof...
I do not have any data to prove whether males or females lie most of the time to obtain restraining orders.
I recommend you perform more research on your own. This should enable you to make a reasonable decision whether to take a chance or not. Morally, well, you should know better...