Restraining Orders are going to someday be found to be Unconstitutional in our opinion.
Something is really wrong with a law that allows a woman to claim she is scared of you in court, yet see and contact you all she wants.
But God help you if your see her.
This is unequal justice under the Law, and just plain unfair.
Here is a New Jersey Attorney challenging this bad law.
We here at Restraining Order Blog hope he wins!
NJ Attorney Challenges Constitutionality of Restraining Orders
David Heleniak, a Morristown, NJ attorney, has filed a motion on behalf of his client, John Paulsen, to vacate a final restraining order (FRO) on the ground that it violates Paulsen's constitutional rights.
Heleniak gained recognition on the issue of domestic violence restraining orders with his 2005 law review article "The New Star Chamber: The New Jersey Family Court and the Prevention of Domestic Violence Act." More recently, in Crespo vs. Crespo, Heleniak won a landmark decision in which the Honorable Francis Schultz of Hudson County ruled that the criteria for a FRO must be "clear and convincing evidence" rather than a "preponderance of the evidence." That verdict made Crespo vs. Crespo a glimmering hope to anyone who was ever hit with a frivolous restraining order – until it was recently overturned by the New Jersey Court of Appeals.
"They were dismissive of the whole idea [that the NJ domestic violence statute could be unconstitutional]" said Heleniak. "In fact, they dealt with some of our best points in a footnote [7], in which they said they were unworthy of discussion. I think they're hoping the issues go away."
Heleniak, disappointed with the decision of the Appellate Division, has asked the NJ Supreme Court to take the Crespo case and has forged ahead with Paulsen in a similar action with a motion to vacate a domestic violence restraining order on constitutional grounds in the local Morris County family court.
"I believe their [the Appellate Division's] refusal to address some of the issues head-on affects their credibility. It just looks like they were ducking," said Heleniak. "But at some point the issues will have to be addressed at a high level. There are just too many cases out there with the same story – a restraining order handed down without sufficient evidence that ruins a man's life and the lives of his children."
Paulsen said that the FRO against him was nothing more than a tactical maneuver to gain an unfair advantage in the litigation process.
"The allegations of abuse against me that gave rise to the FRO were manufactured by my wife to gain a tactical advantage in a divorce that she had decided she wanted months before the allegations were made," said Paulsen. "In fact, she had surreptitiously had several meetings with her divorce attorney and was using the threat of a restraining order as a means of intimidation within our marriage for over a year before she used it as a first strike weapon in the divorce."
A recent analysis notes that unwarranted restraining orders create a "ripple" effect that can persist for many years, harming the alleged person's reputation, legal standing, security clearances, career prospects and financial status. In many cases, it also affects the person's relationship with their children, often causing devastating and permanent harm to that relationship. (A Culture of False Allegations, http://www.radarsvcs.org/docs/RADARreport-VAWA-A-Culture-of-False-Allegations.pdf.)
False allegations not only damage the individual falsely accused, they also affect other family members who may be barred from seeing a grandchild, nephew, or niece.
Special reports regarding domestic violence restraining orders can be viewed at http://www.mediaradar.org/radarServices_special_reports.php.
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Date of RADAR Release: September 28, 2009
R.A.D.A.R. – Respecting Accuracy in Domestic Abuse Reporting – is a non-profit, non-partisan organization of men and women working to improve the effectiveness of our nation's approach to solving domestic violence. http://www.mediaradar.org
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6 days ago
I am on the 5th year of an order for protection against me for repeat violence out of Collier County Florida. I caught my fiance in a two year relationship with another man and found out that the child I was raising was his. All I did was call this guy on the phone and then 7 months later went to his wife's house and told her that her husband made a child with my fiance. He was able to convince his wife to help him in court to get a restraining order against me. I never saw this guy before court and the wife never claimed that I threatened her. They still granted the protection order. This guy ended up divorced and dumped my fiance but I still have to explain this restraining order even though I moved to Colorado. I can't even get a job. Someone stop this unconstitutional abuse of the courts. I have never committed violence against these people, let alone repeat violence. I don't have the money to fight this. Help!
ReplyDeleteU r pretty much screwed! The time to fight a restraining order is in the early stages, to keep it from being granted. It will follow you around for life. Now you KNOW why I created this restraining order blog, to tell MY side of the story.
ReplyDeleteDomestic Violence Laws Should Designate Both Parties as Co-Victims
ReplyDeleteSeems a little unfair. But what about the women that actually need an order to protect them. There are men out there that can be very violent and threatening.
ReplyDeletethey already have laws on stalking and harrassing on the books
Deleteplease get real evidence and convictions in a court of law
before taking away someones constutional rights
this is down right unfair!!
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